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Jan 5, 2010

Input = Output

Basic psychology says that Thoughts become Desires which become Actions. That is why we must think about what we think about. Input equals output.  If I put nourishing ideas, thoughts, concepts, and attitudes, in my brain I can expect my mind to ponder those good things.  That pondering of good things leads to good actions.  On the other hand if I fill my mind with junk TV, rotten stories, petty complaints, and bad thoughts eventually, at least in some small way, those thoughts will lead to desires which will lead to poor attitudes and actions. An ancient proverb says it another way, "As a man thinketh, so is he." I am not saying it is realistic or even healthy to avoid all negative news. But fill you mind with good input and expect good output in return.  

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Dec 10, 2009

Tiger Trust?

Trust is tied to everything.  The amount of trust you have pays or costs.  Do you think trust doesn't cost?  Ask Tiger.  His fall is estimated at costing $30 million in endorsements according to some sources.  Do you think a lack a trust will have costs in his marriage?  Undoubtedly!  I give a process for rebuilding trust in "The Trust Edge", but this will take huge sacrifice and significant action in Tiger's case--and I doubt he will take the steps to really restore trust.  Trust is like a forest, a long time in growing but a touch a carelessness can burn the whole thing down in moments.  A lack of trust is Tiger's, and your biggest expense.

Stay Trusted!
Dave

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Sep 23, 2009

Want Trust? Cut Contracts!

Who do you trust? The company that makes you sign a 3-year contract or the company that says, "There is no contract, and you can stop using us without penalty at any time?" We are wary that the contract-requiring company is trying to get us into something. The no-contract company is saying, "You are going to be so pleased by our service you will stay with us." "We will keep serving you and earning your trust on an ongoing basis." "We are not wrangling you into something, try us and you with stay as long as we serve you well." The no-contract company is the company to sign with. My guess is you will stay with them longer than 3 years.

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Sep 18, 2009

The Trust Edge Book


I had a chance to see The Trust Edge: What Top Leaders Have & 8 Pillars to Build It! go to press. Thank you to Greg Harren(on the Right) for the great job making sure the press proofs are perfect. Copies will be available Oct. 2 through our site (feel free to preorder from the store) though they will not be in book stores for a couple of months.

AeroTrust

I recently met with Steve Wareham, a good friend and the Airport Director of the Minneapolis-St.Paul International Airport. What a great job he does--especially compared to other airports! We were talking about the importance of trust in every industry, and especially his. That pilot must trust the tower is giving him the right information. In essence a fueled up 747 is a bomb. A plane can cross a runway, or enter one a few seconds too early or late and there would be a crash. But because of highly competent individuals trusting highly individuals the incidents are rare. Competency is one of the eight pillars of the trusted.

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Oct 14, 2008

The Bigger Crisis!

A Bigger Crisis?
We are in a crisis. What’s more, our biggest crisis is not the financial one. At the World Economic Forum in China last week world leaders declared that our biggest crisis is not financial but a lack of trust and confidence. We are in a trust crisis and few people really understand the bottom line implications. Not only does it affect credit and government relations, but it also affects every relationship and every organization. Professor John Whitney of the Columbia Business School found, “Mistrust doubles the cost of doing business.” He is right. Without trust leaders lose teams and sales people lose sales. Without trust we all lose productivity, retention of good people, reputation, morale and revenue. The lower the trust the more time everything takes, the more everything costs, and the lower the loyalty of every one involved. However, with greater trust come greater innovation, creativity, freedom, morale, and a bigger bottom line.

All of my Master's research points to the fact that trust is the fundamental key to the most successful leaders and organizations. Obtaining this level of trust isn’t easy. If you are looking for a quick fix, don’t look to trust. While it may appear to be static, in reality it is more like a forest—a long time growing, but easily burned down with a touch of carelessness. Trust is by nature solid and proven. Without trust no lasting genuine success exists--just a brittle, fluffy, mirage of the real thing. The good news is that we can build this fundamental key to success. It is worth it! And it is the ONLY way to genuine relational or organizational success. Following is a synopsis of the eight pillars that build the Trust Edge.

1. Consistency: It’s the little things, done consistently, that make the big difference. In every area of life it is the little things. If I am over weight it is because I have eaten to many calories over time, not because I ate too much yesterday. If I am a good husband I am doing the little things that honor my wife on a daily basis. It is the same in business. The little things done consistently make for leaders being followed, increased sales and retention, and a higher level of trust. Consistency is the way brands are built and character is revealed. Even if we don’t like McDonalds, we trust them because they deliver the same burger in Cleveland as in Tokyo. Do the little things, consistently.

2. Clarity: People trust the clear and mistrust or distrust the ambiguous. Be clear about your mission, purpose, expectations, and daily activities. When people are clear about the mission they do the little things differently. A clear mission unifies and inspires. When a manager is clear in expectations, she will likely get what she wants. When we are clear about priorities on a daily basis we become productive and effective.

3. Compassion: Think beyond yourself. Never underestimate the power of sincerely caring. It is the reason we trust our mothers over some sales people. We are skeptical if the sales person really has our best interest in mind. “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” is not just an old saying, it is a bottom line truth. If followed it builds trust.

4. Character: Do what is right over what is easy. Character is a mix of two things. One is integrity, which means being the same from beliefs to words to actions. The other is moral character. It could be argued that Hitler had great integrity but low moral character. Most people know what is right. It is doing what’s right that is the difficult. We know we should respond to that email or stop watching TV and exercise or read to the kids. Take the high road in every interaction.

5. Contribution: Few things build trust quicker than actual results. Be a contributor that delivers real results!

6. Competency: Staying fresh, relevant and capable builds trust. The humble teachable person keeps learning new and better ways of doing things. They stay current on ideas and trends. According to one study the key competency of new MBA’s is not a specific skill, but rather the ability to learn amidst chaos. Arrogance and a “Been-there-done-that” attitude keep people from growing. There is always more to learn so make a habit of reading, learning, and listening to fresh information.

7. Connection: People want to follow, buy from and be around friends. People become friends when they build connection. Ask questions. Listen. Life, work, and trust are about relationships. All relationships are best built by establishing genuine connection.

8. Commitment: Stick with it through adversity. Followers trusted General Patton, Martin Luther King Jr., Gandhi, Jesus and George Washington because they saw commitment. They saw sacrifice for the greater good. Commitment reveals and it builds trust.

Trust does not start with the economy or government. It starts with individuals becoming trusted. When will we get out of this trust crisis? When we as individuals decide to build the Trust Edge on a daily basis. Keep on being trusted.

Dave Horsager, MA, CSP is an award-winning speaker, producer, professor, and entrepreneur. He has energized audiences on four continents with his humorous dynamic style and compelling bottom-line insights that help leaders and organizations gain the Trust Edge. Find out more at www.ideahorse.com or call 800.608.8969.

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Jan 8, 2008

She Believed in Me!

My wife said something profound at the funeral for her grandmother last month. She said of her grandma, "She believed in me no matter what. I was always the smartest, most beautiful, most wonderful to her. You have got to have someone who loves you like that even if they are wrong--especially if they are wrong!" Oh the importance of someone believing in you--believing in the best of you. That belief tends to bring out the best in all of us.

I think of two very different coaches that I played for growing up. One was our football coach, Mike Mahlen, I believe the winningest High School football coach in the state of Minnesota. The other was our basketball coach. In football we won nearly ever game, in basketball we won one game and lost sixteen my senior year. I am not saying it was all the coaches fault, but there was a clear difference in the two. There former really believed in each player as an athlete and as a good young man. His belief brought out the best. In basketball few felt believed in and we lost.

On your team and in your family, believe the best for those around you. If you do, you might just get their best!

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